Just two words, but they mean so much to me right now.
To be able to see the outpouring of support for Troy, the
children, and myself has been more uplifting than you can possibly imagine. I wanted
to do my best to add to this chain of love and share with you in my own
imperfect words how I am feeling. Here it goes…
Troy is a fighter. All of you that know Troy will understand
when I tell you he did his best, and he did it right. At first I thought we
were coming here to support him. He was hurt, how bad we didn’t know, but we
were gathering quickly to help him.
Today we understood why Troy was trying so hard to stay with
us as long as he could. It was not because he could recover from his accident,
it was because he wanted us all to be ready to support each other when he could
no longer do it himself. In charge to the end, Troy decided this afternoon that we were ready.
Troy’s life was short but full. I am so thankful that he has
touched so many lives, and he lives on in all of us. At first I was afraid the
boys would not remember their dad as they got older, now I know Troy has taken
care of that too. They will always know their dad through all of you.
Love Cindy, Tannor, Rhys, and Vaughn
Cindy, we have prayed for Troy and will continue to pray for you and your boys. God is holding you all close to his heart and will watch over you in the days ahead. What an honor for your family to see the love of all these friends sending their prayers to you and your family. Chuck and Coe Troup
ReplyDeleteThinking about you and the boys. Words cannot explain how sorry I am. Praying for you and your kids. We are here for you. We love you. Big hugs. We will miss you, Troy! xoxo
ReplyDeleteMindy
I love you Cindy. He was a good man and has created an amazing legacy of love, family and friends with you. I will always be here to support you and the boys. I'm so grateful to have known you all. Love,
ReplyDeleteJan Jan
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Troy was bigger than life and I'll miss him dearly. He talked the talk and walked the walk. Eric Lennane
I miss you and love you Troy Boy. May you find peace and happiness and endless singletrack somewhere else. Be strong Cindy. We will always be there for you and the boys. We will tell stories about Troy forever.
ReplyDeleteThe Wagner-Jauregg's
Cindy, our hearts are broken for all of you. So thankful you have so much support. We are lifting you up in prayer as you face the coming days. Love to all of you. Rick and Rhonda Cuba
ReplyDeleteCindy, there are no words that can express how very sorry we are. Troy, we will miss you. Your memory will live with us forever.
ReplyDeleteMark, Denise and Tatiana Mosely
I am so sorry for your loss....
ReplyDeleteTerra
We are all forever changed by this. Words cannot begin to express our sadness. Please remember, we are just a phone call away and our doors are always open. We love you guys and We will never forget :(
ReplyDelete--Menchie, Doug, Madison & Chloe
We love all of you so much and are praying for you and the boys. We will miss all the great and fun things about Troy. We will always be here for you as your added family in the cul de sac. Love from Brian,Wendy,Tyler and Jarrett Smith
ReplyDeleteCindy,
ReplyDeleteTotally feel for you and the boys. In a way, I feel like we all grew up windsurfing together. Troy was the guy with the biggest cajones of all of us, and we all wished we were as fearless as he. He did everything to the fullest.
Then we all began to move on to other interests, starting families, and leaving windsurfing in the rear view mirror, getting together became more infrequent. In a sad way, Troy has brought us all back together again.
When you are back in the Bay Area, know that many of us, including people like me, whom you haven't seen for a while, will do our best to help you and the boys get through this.
-Pres
Cindy, we are beyond sad and will miss Troy's outgoing personality, sense of humor, and friendship. Troy will live on through you, the boys, and all your wonderful memories. We will never forget him.
ReplyDeleteWe will be here with open arms filled with love and support when you and the boys return.
Much love, Kindra and James
You are a very strong courageous woman. The boys are very luck to have you as their mother. Please know that with all the love and support you all will get through this. Although Troy is not here on earth, he will always be with you watching over and making sure that all of you are ok. A good quote that came to mind when thinking about Troy… “How lucky I am to have known someone who was so full of life“ My thoughts and prayers will be with you and the boys over the next couple weeks. Please give them a hug from us. The Tuescher
ReplyDeleteDear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe are SO sorry for your loss and will continue to pray for you and the boys. Please know that we are here for you....
Love and friendship,
Craig, Nancy, Andrew, Natalie, and Nicole Doud
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry for your loss and you and the boys will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jess and Matt Tomsic
Cindy and Collins boys--Heather, Zach, Noah and I are so deeply sorry for your loss. I know i haven't struggled through a week like this since losing my dad 11 years ago. It's been very hard to accept and understand.
ReplyDeleteAll of us, including the Collins family and this incredible group of supporters, will get through this somehow together. We will all make sure Troy does live on. We will all make sure the boys remember and cherish their dad.
The boys have an uncle in Santa Cruz now. Call on us anytime, for anything. With much love--The other Wagner-Jaureggs--Chris, Heather, Zach and Noah
Cindy and boys,
ReplyDeleteWe are so very sorry for your loss!!! Troy was such a great guy and we are going to miss him dearly!! I know 1st hand how much he loves you as he told us at Frank Rains that he married so above himself when he married you!! We have bee praying constantly since Sunday and will continue to do so for you and your boys!!! Always know that we are here if you ever need anything!!
Love, The Coiner Family
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWords can not tell you how sorry I am for your huge loss. I will always remember Troy as being a very hands-on, involved, supportive dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is ANYTHING I can do, please let me know.
Kary McLemore
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI'm so heartbroken for you and the boys. I wish I could say something that could help. Troy lived his life to the fullest and it could not have been any other way. He would surely smile and be happy knowing how much you and your family are loved and cared for. You're in my thoughts always, Marc
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteYour words are perfect for a difficult time.
Troy went out of his way to make us feel welcome when we moved in. From when he introduced himself, his charisma and enthusiasm for life set him apart as a special man. I'll miss not getting to know him better and learning from him. At the same time, Angela and I look forward to spending time with you and the boys. There's a lot of love in this cul-de-sac. If you ever need some time for you, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn have a standing invite to come hang out at Chez Bunner.
-- Andrew, Angela (and Adeline) Bunner
Cindy......we can't begin to put into words how very sorry we are for your loss. We are deeply saddened and will be thinking of you and the boys everyday. Troy was such a wonderful soul, so full of life and spirit. We will all continue to pray for him and will always be here for you. Love you so very much.
ReplyDeleteWayne and Debbie
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteYou and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Please know we are here to help/support you and your wonderful boys. Much love to you...
Eileen, Tito, Jackson, Emerson & Clayton Monge
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot begin to say how sorry we are to hear about Troy. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need please do not hesitate to ask.
Love
Nandita
Cindy, Troy always seemed a little bigger than life, and if anyone could make it through, it would be him. Reading all the posts and comments over the last week shows what a life full of love he lived. He leaves such a strong legacy and we know your boys can hold that with them. Joe and Laurie
ReplyDeleteDear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI recently met Troy at gas stop at this race. He impressed me with his energy and how much he talked about his Boys. He was a proud dad. I'm sure I'm not telling you anything you didn't already know but he impressed me. I know he will continue to be proud as they grow older.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
The Fromans
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI can't begin to tell you how sad I was to hear this terrible news and how sorry I am for your loss. I will continue to hold you all close in my thoughts. I know that Troy will live on in your hearts forever.
Love, Gail Welter
Lochlan and I are sitting here crying thinking of your great loss. Lochlan found a quote from Helen Keller that he thought Troy might like and we wanted to share.
ReplyDelete"Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing."
-Helen Keller
What a life! What an amazing, adventurous and full life. We are here sending you love.
Love, The Campbells
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys, & Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteOur heart goes out to you and your family. I wish there was more we could do.
HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG, HUG
Sarina, Eric, Easton & Caiden Hamer
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine the pain and loss you and the boys are feeling right now. I just want you to know that we are here for you whenever you need us. Troy was amazing and loved you and the boys very much. I will miss his big smile and big heart, but I know those traits will live on through Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn. We love you very much.
Brandi, Scott, Sammy, Cameron and Ally
Oh Cindy. I am in tears and without words. My thoughts have been with you all day and will stay there. Please, please let me know if there is anything I can do for your and the boys during this difficult time. Much, much love, Jenn (and the Robinsons)
ReplyDeleteThinking of you tonight. Wishing everything could be different. Troy will live on in your heart and through your beautiful boys. He will be watching over all of you every single minute of every day and will be smiling down on you always. Love you!
ReplyDeleteKristin
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if we can help with anything. Our thoughts will always be with you and your family!
Travis, Susanna, Zachary and Aaron Ma
Troy-Boy - RIP buddy!
ReplyDeleteBeen thinking for days of our various adventures over the years. There were an awful lot of them. Wavesailing by ourselves in epic conditions at Arroyo Laguna, various Baja trips, etc. You always made everything more fun. You will definitely be missed!
Cindy, Tanner, Rhys, and Vaughn, we're here to help and support you guys for the long term!
Brad, Audrey, Kayley, Alyssa
REST IN PARADISE TROY....... out hearts go out for you and your family..... even though we didn't know him well, we saw the love troy had for his boys. I know that love will shine through and they will grow up with the love of their father in their eyes. Many condolences.
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Doug & daria
We pray that the Lord wrap you and your children in his loving embrace and give you the strength you need as you endure this tragic loss. We will forever remember Troy and the love he had for you and his family. You will remain in our prayers and thoughts. We will never forget Troy's smile, his laugh and his passion for life but most especially his enthusiasm when cheering for his boy's.
ReplyDeleteWith our deepest sympathy,
Paul and Kim Patton
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe are so blessed by your friendship--it's hard to find the words to say how saddened we are. What everyone has said is true--Troy is such a remarkable father, husband, and person, and he has left an incredible legacy in you all. We are thinking of you and praying for you. We would be blessed to help you in any ways you can think of.
Love,
Fedora and family
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe were so sorry to hear first of Troy's accident and then of his passing tonight. You and your boys are in our thoughts and prayers. Please know that we are just around the corner if you need anything.
Love, Adria and Brian Matthews
Dear Cindy and Boys,
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened by this terrible loss. Troy has always been such a big, positive presence at all of our District 36 races. His passing will leave a huge hole in the D36 family. He will be missed and always remembered. Josh came home last Saturday and all he could talk about was the big racing battle between him and his dad and Tannor and his dad and how awesome and fun it was. After we dried many tears tonight, he finally said. "That is one race I don't mind losing at all anymore, because now at least Troy left this world like the winner he really was." You are an amazingly strong woman and you and your beautiful boys are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim, Sherri, Jake and Josh Marshall
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, oh so sorry for your loss. and for the boys' loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting Troy, but I know he must have been a good soul because he has an amazingly wonderful wife and children. God be with you through this difficult time. It is clear to me that you have a lot of people wanting to love you through this. Please take us up on it! Sending much love your way,
Sarah and the Muscolina Family
Dear Cindy,Tannor,Rhys,and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWe are ALL so sorry for what you are going through. I just want to say how lucky we were to have met Troy and your family this year. Troy has touched many hearts!We will pray for all of you to make this tough time less painful.
Take Care, The McGuire's
I never got to know Troy, but it is apparent that he was an amazing person. My thoughts and love are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteBeth Dooley
Dear Cindy & boys,
ReplyDeleteWe are overwhelmed with sadness for you while reading this news. We know your Troy will live on forever in many hearts. Hold on to all the great memories. Take much care and feel strength from your big and loving network of family and friends.
Love, Manon, Richard, Eva & Isabel Peate
To our Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys, and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot describe the way we feel. All of you have been in our every thought since we found out on Sunday. I know Troy gave it his best...that's how he rolled! We will miss him very very much.
Know this. From here on out we will be with you and the boys every step of the way!
Love,
Andre, Diane, Ashley, Tyler
Dear Cindy and the entire family,
ReplyDeleteChris and I are so sorry for your loss. We have been thinking of Troy every minute of the last few days. He touched so many lives and we feel forever thankful that we knew him. There are so many wonderful memories that we will cherish and hold dear forever.
Your family is enveloped and surrounded by the love of all who know you.
-Andrew and Chris Markham
Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteEvery thought has been of you and your family these last few days. There are absolutely no words that can rightly convey the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that we are experiencing for your family at this moment and for the days that follow. You have so much support and love...anything you need, we are there for you and the boys.
Mike and Stephanie Davies
Cindy, Tannor, Rhys, and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Please don't hesitate to ask if there is anything at all that I can do for you.
Love Kelly Blumer
Dear Cindy and family,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot describe how saddened we are for your loss. It was such a pleasure to have known Troy. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by many. My love and prayers to you, Tannor, Ryhs and Vaughn. We are all hear for you. The Bakhtegan Family
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteJoe and I are so saddened tonight. I'm glad you are surrounded by loved ones, and know that we are hear for you with all the love and support we can give. The boys are so lucky to have you, the best mom I can imagine to carry them through, Troy was a wonderful person and he touched all of us. Nicole was so excited to have him be her coach again, and will truly be saddened as well. We love you...
Laurie and Joe xxxoo
This is a very sad moment. So sorry for your loss. RIP, Troy. As part of the Third Ave windsurfing circle back in the days, I always remember Troy with his presence, energy, and live life to the fullest attitude. Wish we know why the helmet didn't do enough. Let us know if we can help in any way.
ReplyDeleteIvy and Johny
Dear Cindy & boys,
ReplyDeleteSo very sad to hear this news. We knew Troy from the 3rd Avenue windsurfing days many years back. As many have said, he did live life to the fullest in every area he pursued. So very hard to believe he is gone. Our thoughts are with you.
Laura & Alan Segervall
Dear Cindy & boys,
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened by the news that Troy passed. He was truely a class act in D36 racing. We do the races up in NV and Troy and the boys are always great supporters. My wife runs signup and always remembers how nice Troy and the boys represent themselves.
We were at the event on Sunday and talked to Troy at gas, always the most up bet person to talk to.
If you need anything our family and club are there to help.
Jeff, Patti & Brandon Henning & all of WSRA.
Dear Cindy and the boys,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sad to hear the news and so sorry for your loss. Cindy you have 3 wonderful boys and in them you will always see Troy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!!
If you need anything please let me know!
love, Veronica
The best we can do in times like these is pray and keep close to friends and more importantly family. We wish you healing and love for everyone who has been touched with Troy's presence. And know he will be with you in spirit.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Maria & Isabelle Carranza
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Ryhse and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts and prayers and are deeply saddened for the loss of a loving and wonderful husband and father. We are here for you 24/7 anything we can help you with.
Love,
Linda, Ken and Nicholas Taylor
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe never met but I had the great pleasure to ride with Troy during several races. Please rely on the D36 community as I am confident we/I will be there if anything is needed. I'm so very sorry for your loss. We are heart broken.
Dave Wood - glad to have know and raced side by side with Troy.
Dear Cindy and Family,
ReplyDeleteWe are so very sad about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Troy will live on in your hearts and memories.
Love,
Teri Prezant and Craig Anderson
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteTroy, you and the family are in our prayers. I am sure his love and presence will always give you strength and hope in difficult times. Our deepest condolences. Stefania and Roland
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe are heartbroken for your loss and want you and the boys to know we, as many others, are here for you whenever you need us. He loved you and the boys so much. Troy lived his life to the fullest and will be missed tremendously. Our hearts are with you,
Jenny, Ray, Brian and Jessica
Cindy - we don't even know what to say. Our hearts are breaking for you and the boys. We are so blessed to have known Troy and spend time with you both. You will continue to be in our prayers. He had such a zest for life. Please let us know if you need anything at all.
ReplyDeleteLove, Tom and Dana Hippensteel
Dear Cindy, Tanner, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot express the feeling of our broken hearts! Words cannot express how much we love and will miss Troy! Cindy, words cannot even begin to express how much we love you and your precious boys! Troy will forever be apart of us......and we will always be here for you. Sending you all our love!
Gaston, Mel, Gaston and Logan
Cindy, We are all better for having had Troy in our lives. Please know you're in our prayers and we offer all our love and support.
ReplyDelete-- Joanne, Calandra, Zain, and Kaylie
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteThere are no words to express our sadness. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and the boys. May you continually feel the love and support from everyone. We are all here for you.
Love, The Paulazzo Family.
I will always remember that big personality and big smile, Troy will always have a place in my memory and I will never forget that last handshake at mile 46.8 - Troy you will be missed.
ReplyDeleteMartyn Holgate
Our heart felt condolences at such tragic news. We are so very sorry for your loss and will have you and your children in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteJo, Elizabeth, Nicholas, Catherine & Patrick
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaugh,
ReplyDeleteYou and your beautiful family have been in our thoughts all week, every minutes. We are heartbroken and deeply saddened by the loss of such an incredible dad, full of life man and loving husband. There are no words to describe how much we feel for you. Troy will be truly missed, yet you and your boys will carry amazing memories forever. Strength, support and love will get you all through this, qualities that you all share. Know that we are here for you on this next journey. We love you,
Sophie, Romas, Patrik and Isabella Geleziunas
Dear Cindy & Family,
ReplyDeleteI am heartbroken to read this latest update and am so very sorry for your loss. Phil and I are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers; I wish we could be there to give you and the boys a hug, but I will let our amazing and supportive mutual friends do that for us.
I'm so sorry, Cindy. Sending you much love from Maui.
xoxo
Ang & Phil
To Troy’s family,
ReplyDeleteWe were in stunned disbelief trying to take in the news of Troy’s accident. We were pulling for him with every shred of hope we had.
Troy lived an outsized life with an outsized personality. He poured so much heart and soul and energy into everything he did, including windsurfing, which is where Scott and I know him from. I remember hearing him from a mile away – literally – from the blue tanks as he announced with his enthusiastic zest at one of his King of the Bay events, where he drummed up so much enthusiasm. And seeing him at Waddell blasting out over the waves doing big graceful backloops was just gorgeous. Our hearts go out to all of you. Do know there are lots of people out there, like us, whom Troy has touched immensely that you may not even have realized.
Wishing you much peace,
Eugenia and Scott
So very sorry to hear of Troys accident and passing. Our sincere condolences.
ReplyDeleteThe Ponting Family
Cindy and the Collins family, our hearts go out to you during your time of loss. I didn't know Troy well, we coached together in soccer and I knew him when I was president of Little League. He is always full of enthusiasm and I appreciated his greetings - he always greeted me whenever we saw each other. You will be in our prayers and our thoughts.
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Troy was the person we all knew to live life as it is meant to be lived: with joy, zest, and without hesitance, enjoying every day of it. He was like the kid who always had fun, and wherever he showed up everything was louder, sunnier, better. We will always miss him and his unparalleled vitality.
ReplyDeleteCindy, we are all with you now in our hearts and thoughts, and we wish strength and peace for you and your boys.
Dorota & Eric
I am so sorry for your loss Cindy. Troy was always a bright ray of sunshine wherever he went. My best to you, the boys, and Troy's mom. We'll all miss Troy very much. -Ed Scott
ReplyDeleteCindy and boys.....We cannot begin to express how saddened we are of the news that Troy has passed. Troy was always full of life and had love for everyone. This year the most has been the year that we have gotten to know Troy, you and the boys as Tannor and Tyler are friends and competitors. The both of you brought so much kindness, love and joy to the sport and to everyone you came in contact with. Troy we will miss you and you will be missed by so many.
ReplyDeleteThe Uenaka family - Dave, Angie, and Tyler
Troy's sons,
ReplyDeleteI only knew your Dad from the 3rd Ave windsurfing scene. But those moments together were enriched by how your Dad shared his love for life. His spirit was infectious. It may not seem like it now, but I am sure you each carry his joyful spirit within you, and that his spirit will shine through you (again) in time.
Cindy,
All my energy and thoughts have been with you and Troy this week. Your moving post conveys a special connection and strength. I wish you and the boys continued strength as you work through your grief.
I wish all of us strength as we work through our grief on losing Troy. He left a legacy with the many videos he posted on line of his sailing and biking antics and proud videos of the boys biking.
Erik Rogind
Cindy
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of troy’s death. We did not know Troy except for basic introductions on a few occasions and through stories that your dad would tell us as a proud grandpa/father-in-law. As I have read the blog’s, I had a chance to get to know him a little more. He was a great father and loved life and lived it that way. May you and the boys find comfort in each other, family and friends. We are praying for you all. Wish we could step across the miles and give you HUGS.
Your canuk cuz - Gord and Marlene
Troy was a presence in life. All whom he has touched throughout his journey will miss his presence. He was an exceptionally proud Dad and I have no doubt that Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn will continue to make him proud. Your strength and courage over the past week has been amazing. A true testament of the love you both shared. My heart breaks for you all. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteKnow that if I can assist you with even the smallest thing, I am there for you.
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI have only known Troy a few years. It was always a highlight during my trips to San Diego, to see him with the boys at the pool. He was a wonderful father. The best parts of Troy lives on in the boys. May the Lord guide you through these hard times. You all continue to be in our prayers.
Steve & Debbie Stock
Friendswood, Tx
My prayers are with you and the boys.
ReplyDeleteCindy,
ReplyDeleteI feel so blessed to have known Troy and always felt so lifted up by his exuberance. He was a treasure and one of the most supportive fathers I've ever met. It was an honor to have been his friend and share the common goal of raising sons to our greatest ability. My deepest love to you and your beautiful boys.
Carol Sundermeyer
Boys, everything I'm about to say you already know. A simple fact. In life every once in a while you will come across some special people, exceptional, champions and not just in the literal sense of the word. They just are, period. When you come across one of these people you know it right away. These people are rare. Your dad was one of them. You boys carry that with you, that something that made him special is in you, you have that forever, it can never be taken away or lost or misplaced. Now and in many years from now you can rely on this simple fact.
ReplyDeleteDre
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot express how heartbroken we are to hear your news, we are so sorry for your loss. You have been and all are in our thoughts and prayers every minute.
We felt blessed, riight from the moment we moved next door, to have you and Troy as our neighbours and friends. Troy's enthusiasm and Zest for life was contagious and he will forever be an inspirational spirit in our lives. We will miss not getting to know him even better, but will carry with us the warmth, love and laughter he brought to our cul-de-sac.
We are here for you and your beautiful boys, next door, whenever you need us.
All our love,
Steve, Zoe and Nikolai
RIP Troy, while we may have only known you on the soccer and little league fields your kindness and ever present smile will never be forgotten. You will truly be missed. You have an incredible family and your spirit will live through them.
ReplyDeleteCindy, Tannor, Rhys, Vaughn - our hearts are with you and wish you strength and peace.
Jeff, Jennifer, Zachary, and Matthew Burgos
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot even begin to express how deeply saddened we are by the news of Troy. He will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. He was an amazing man, father, husband, friend. You are an incredibly strong woman but please know that you have an entire community of friends and family who will be there for you whenever you need us.
Love and hugs to you and the boys.
The Morgans - Brian, Kim, Kyle & Chelsea
Our son, Russell, was in this race and told us this sad news. Our hearts feel such a loss for you and your children. We can only wish you strength and that you find courage for your loss and love in the faces of your children.
ReplyDeleteCarole Brace
CINDY,
ReplyDeleteWE CANNOT EVEN EXPRESS HOW SADDENED WE ARE. TROY WILL BE MISSED BY SO MANY OF US AND WE HOPE THAT WE CAN SOMEHOW CARRY ON THE LEGACY HE LEAVES BEHIND. IT WAS ALWAYS SO APPARENT OF HIS LOVE FOR YOU AND THE BOYS. GOD WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH FOR THOSE PRECIOUS BOYS AND TO GET THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. THOUGH TROY'S LIFE WAS SHORT, IT WAS CERTAINLY FULL. PLEASE KNOW THAT WE ARE HERE FOR YOU ALWAYS. WE LOVE YOU!!! MIKE AND JANET WEGNER
Dearest Cindy, I'm sending our comfort, peace and love to you and your precious children. God's timing is not our timing - His angels and welcoming Troy into heaven too early. My last picture of him was singing on the stage at the National Conference - and that is how I will remember him, fearless and full of energy. Embrace the love of those around you and the loving God whose Spirit is inside you. We are all praying for you...
ReplyDeleteLove, you friend,
Pam Cummings
Cindy, we are so very sorry for your loss. We are completely numb knowing what happened. I still can't believe it. We didn't know him too long, but the time we did, we knew he was a great guy who will be sorely missed by MANY. My prayers and wishes for you is to find the strength for you and the boys. We are here for you.
ReplyDeleteLove, The Quarrato's
Cindy and kids,
ReplyDeleteFun loving and enthusiastic are just a few words that come to mind when I think about my buddy Troy! Myself, Leslie, Maya and gavin(tanner's buddy) are going to miss Troy. If You need anything Cindy you let us know.
Love the Blodgett's
Troy was a wonderful man, a dedicated father, a strong leader and an enthusiast for just about EVERYTHING in life. It was a JOY to watch him eat and hysterical to see him tell a story. I'll always remember the boss who sang on Friday mornings in the office, when he'd show up in shorts and a T-shirt, hoping to work swiftly so he could go be with his family. I'll miss his honesty, his effusive nature (no one didn't like him and WOW is he popular) and the way he managed to nickname me Jen Jen. Only a charmer like Troy could get away with that. I have such wonderful memories and I'm so saddened by this news.
ReplyDeleteI'm available for babysitting if you ever need me Cindy. 925-209-3594. All my love, prayers and condolences to you and your beautiful children. Jenn Ford
RIP Troy. You left too soon but certainly did it right with your time here.
ReplyDeleteAll of us at the beach will miss your big, friendly personality and positive energy. You were the real deal.
-Mike Higgins
Dear Cindy,Tannor,Rhys,and Vaugh.
ReplyDeleteYour message to all of us speals volumes to the courageous woman you are...Troy's death leaves such an emptiness of spirit to our cul-de-sac .My heart is so very saddened for you and the boys.Please know you are all in prayers and I am here for anything
Love,
Mary Delaney
Dear Collins family,
ReplyDeleteI am so sad to hear about Troy. I was first introduced to him through windsurfing and the "King of the Bay" event, with his enthusiasm, his friendliness, and his charm he really was, himself, an original king of the bay. I will miss running into him, on the shore and on the water, and that consistent smile!
With deep sympathy,
Katie
Dear Cindy and boys,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about Troy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Sumi Chari and family
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteTroy was and will always be a wonderful man, with a wonderful wife and wonderful sons. He lives on in you, the boys, and in us. Your memories are your blessings. Our prayers for all of you continue...
Our Love to you,
Ed and Cindy and everyone at Foy Financial.
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn: Like everyone else, we are so, so sorry to hear about Troy. I feel he is up there somewhere giving someone a hard time in his own unique way (and I mean that in a totally positive sense.) I'm actually smiling through my tears thinking of my memories of Troy. Hugs to you Cindy and the boys - I hope to see you soon and hug you in person.
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Michelle, Mitch, Meredith and Bryce
Cindy, Tannor, Rhys, & Vaughn -- please accept our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our hearts join the collective grief expressed here, and our very best wishes in the journey ahead.
ReplyDeleteIn sympathy,
the Smith-Morton family from Fox School
This is very sad news. My thoughts are with Cindy and the Boys.
ReplyDeleteI can remember the many times I sailed with Troy and the rest of our 3rd Ave crew in the Bay, the Delta and Maui. There is no person I know who charged harder than Troy. The many broken boards he would sail back in could attest to this.
I remember one Maui day in particular like it was yesterday. Myself, Troy, Dave, Mike and Johnny were all sailing Uppers. On this day, the biggest I had ever sailed -- Hookipa was unsailable and inner Uppers was way over mast high with double mast high set rolling through. We were all sailing on the outer reefs trying not to get clobbered by these monsters as they crested over the reef --it was as if we were sailing over mountains. Most of the time you could not see the beach or your buddies as we weaved through the waves.
The next thing I heard was Troy yelling for us to go big. On my next wave out I heard Troy, just upwind, yelling for me to “throw it”. I launched into the biggest forward loop I have ever thrown and landed it clean and with authority. Troy was yelling with enthusiasm. Never to be outdone, as we both approached the second monster, Troy launched into the biggest forward loop I have ever seen him throw……one handed no less……Damn!
As we were wrapping up the day, I began sailing back to the beach, timing my run in so I didn’t get cleaned out by a double mast high set. As I dropped in from a mast high shoulder, I could hear Troy shouting to Dave on the next wave upwind of me. As I looked back to see the action, all I saw was Troy and Dave no more than arms distance apart about to drop into a 20+ face. For Dave, this was easily the biggest wave of his life. The next thing I noticed was Dave streaking down the wave face with a look of pure intensity, and Troy right behind him hooting and hollering with excitement for Dave -- they just escaped the massive lip crashing down. Troy had this uncanny ability to bring out the best in his friends.
Later, as we were finishing up dinner, barely able to stay awake from the adrenaline overload of the day, you could see it in all of our eyes that we had just experienced a once in a life time moment -- a moment only very few will ever experience.
I guess you can say we are lucky, to experience such an amazing day with such amazing friends…..this is how you live life to the fullest! Godspeed.
-Jay
Collins Family -
ReplyDeleteMay you continue to be supported by strength, wrapped with love, and cherish memories that will last forever.
Your fellow Collins Family,
Keith, Heidi & Charlie
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you and the Boys. I know there are no words of comfort but know that while I only Met Troy a few times I do remember that he was a fun and a loving Father and Husband. Cindy, I have always admired you and your grace, strength and Kindness. I know that Tannor, Rys and Vaughn were so lucky to have such a loving Father and lucky to have such a wonderful woman for a mother. Please accept my deepest sympathy. When the time comes It would be my pleasure to help in any way.
Lots of Love Stephanie (AKA-Teacher Stephanie)
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of Troy's passing. His joy of life will certainly be missed by all. Our thoughts are with you and you family.
Bob & Liz
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteVery hard to believe and accept. Troy made such an impact on me and no doubt everyone else he came into contact with in life.
I remember vividly the first time I met Troy. Dave (aka 3rd Avenue Dave, aka Hollywood Dave) had just introduced us and the first thing out of Troy’s mouth was “you’re riding that old piece of crap? I used to ride that board 10 years ago! You need to get a new board…”, So Troy! I got him back a week later when I dropped in on him on a wave at Waddell. Needless to say, I got an ear-full. Fortunately for me, having just met him, he gave me a stern lecture on safely riding waves rather than a well-deserved pummeling. It was a lesson that I will remember forever, and an insight into what kind of a person Troy really was – a genuinely good and caring person. The times we hung out were filled with good-natured ribbing, great times and good laughs, and I will sincerely miss that. Troy accepted me into his life and into his family, and for that I am grateful. I look forward to watching Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn grow up as a part of their extended family, and I know that I will have plenty of opportunities to let them know what a great person their Dad was.
I know Troy will be looking out for all of us!
Paul
Dear Collins family ,
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to Cindy and the boys !
I can't say that I knew Troy but we met last year around this time as I was lining up for my first time riding the B line in an enduro and Troy was battling for the top spot in the B overall and would be moving up to the A class this season . We chatted about different things and I learned that his boys raced also as did mine - though mine is much older . In a short period of time with him I got a real sense of his passion and his love for his family . He also had this warmth about him as you felt like you had a new friend after just meeting him . For those that were lucky enough to have been close to him for a long time I know this is a very difficult time for you . He was a special guy and I wish I had known him better .
As a father and a husband I am truly heart broken and shaken by this .
Dan Sullivan
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteEven as I was reading the last of your post, my mind could not comprehend what you were really saying. Warren and I thought Troy would pull through on this too. In our minds he was larger than life and we will always remember him that way. We are incredibly saddened by the loss of Troy and we are sending you and the boys all of our prayers. Please never forget that we are here for you and the boys with whatever we can help you with even in the future. All you need to do is ask.
Koren and Warren
Godspeed my friend.
ReplyDeleteBrad
The motor cafe
I only had the opportunity to meet him once. However his passion for his family, business, and life was clear. Live life to fullest while your here and he did, I'm sorry that he wasn't with us for longer
ReplyDeleteDear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts ache for your loss. We did not know Troy very well, but it is obvious that he was much admired by those who did. We are thinking of you constantly. Please let us know how we can help your family.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Nina, David, Nicholas and Milad
I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteDear Cindy, I love you and Troy and your boys so much. Troy has always been the life of the party and we have definitely shared a lot of laughs together. You and Troy have also always had immensely huge hearts for everyone! I am so sorry that Troy had to go so soon. Please let me know if I can help in any way. Love Kris, Luke and Sierra xoxoxo
ReplyDeleteI have no words.
ReplyDeleteCindy
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. There's so much and yet so little to say. It's a terrible loss, a tragedy. But you have such a loving, supportive group surrounding you as is evident from all these lovely posts. And Tannor is already showing the greatness and strength to become the little man in the family and fill Troys big shoes. That is definitely something that Troy really succeeded at-raising the 3 boys and teaching them how to be men and to be able to take care of you.
I think the saddest thing for me is that such a thing could happen to someone as good and sweet as you. But maybe it happens that way because you built up a lot of shoulders to lean on. I am definitely one of those shoulders. If you ever need anything, some help bringing the kids to school or home, a home cooked meal, a chat over tea, or even a baby fix ;) don't hesitate to call. We're here for you in the same way you've always been for all of the families at Fox.
Our thoughts are with you,
Lori and Warren Nishikawa and kids
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteYou and the boys are in our thoughts. It does not seem real that he could be gone. He was truly a force and so full of life. He lived life to the fullest and will be missed.
He was blessed to have had you as his life partner. We love you and the boys.
Lisa & Mike Hashemi
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened to hear of the loss of Troy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you ever need, please let us know.
Annette and Steve Robinson
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteWe've been praying for your family since we first heard the news of Troy's accident...and never imagined this outcome. We are so very sorry for your loss.
It's been so long since we've last seen each other but please know that we are holding you close to our hearts
and will continue to pray for your family. You are
extremely fortunate to be surrounded by so much love
and support, which we hope will help carry you through
this time of sorrow.
Sending you and the boys a big hug from all of us!
Love,
Sean, Christine, Lauren and Nick
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteWe are very sad to hear of Troy's passing. We are in disbelief. Troy will live on through his three beautiful, talented, kind sons. Your children are very lucky to have such a kind, loving, and dedicated mother. We want you to know your family will be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers during the coming months. Please call us anytime if you need any help with errands, babysitting etc. Please feel free to drop the boys off at our house for a needed break.
Love,
Mary Beth, Mark, Brian and Charlie Kelley
We were shocked and very saddened to hear of Troy's passing. We were very fortunate to have Troy touch our lives. Our family met Troy 4 years ago when Troy coached my son Jasper in soccer. Troy's enthusiasm and energy for coaching the kids was wonderful and we have many fond memories of that season.
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Loo Family
Dear Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI just figured out today about your husband and I am in tears. He is my prayers and especially you and your kids are in my heart.
I love you, guys!
Tiziana (Daniele's mom)
It is only now that I can bring myself to post on the blog.....we were so saddened to hear the news. Please know that you and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. It is very apparent that you and the boys are surrounded with much love, friends and family. Please know that we are here for you in every way. Love, Steve and Renee Oliver and family.
ReplyDeleteCindy and family..our thoughts and prayers ae with you. We all would like to pay our respects whenever there is a service. We all would like to be there to support you and your family. We are really, one big family and the loss is felt throughout the racing community. God speed!
ReplyDeleteWe are so, so saddened to hear the news, Cindy. Our love to you and the boys...you are all in our prayers and in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteWe love you all very much.
Brent and Laurie Redberger, Jack and Rylan.
Godspeed Troy. Our thoughts and prayers go out to cindy and the boys during this tough time, but stay strong and you have tons of support so don't be afraid to speak up and everyone will rally to help out.
ReplyDeleteThe Christie Family
Cindy,
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you lost Troy. I was hoping he would make it. I have been praying for you and your family to get through all of this. God is there for you. He is there to comfort and protect you and your family through anything.
Sincerely,
Marcia Byers
Hey Cindy, & anyone else i have seen a lot of talk about riding with stickers of Troy at our next event. I was curious if you had a picture you could send to me so i can make some stickers up with his name,D36#, and year of birth to date of passing. i know how it is to loose a loved one. and my family and i along with everyone at our shop are keeping you and your family in our prayers. Troy was loved by many people and will be missed greatly. You can email me at Mikeh2409@live.com with all the information if you would like. If not its ok, i would just like to help out if i can.
ReplyDeleteSincerely,
Mike Hendry
Cindy and boys:
ReplyDeleteI am still in disbelief and in tears about the news. We are incredibly saddened by the news. You are strong but if there is anything we can do, please let us know. We would be comforted if we can share your grief and burden.
Much love,
Su-Mien and family
Dear Cindy, Tannor, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry and “beyond sad” about your loss, a loss for all of us.
Troy lived life to the full, was fun-loving, the life and soul of the party, with a big personality, big heart, big smile, and a big voice! I still hear his voice and remember him every day. I remember way back to his Wisconsin cheese-head costume at Hallowe’en. I remember our trip to Baja and his guitar playing, singing songs about his dogs, Martini and Gimlet. I remember Troy and Chilly having diaper-changing races as proud new Dads! I remember them standing naked for a photo with Tannor and Cory on the beach in Maui – a photo we had on the fridge for a long time – 4 very cute butts! I know you have many many happy memories. Keep them forever.
Troy loved you all very much and you were a wonderful wife and family for him.
You’re all in my thoughts.
Love from Aly Xxxx
Cindy and boys:
ReplyDeleteI am stunned to hear the news. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lori De Leon
Cindy, Tanner, Rhys and Vaughn,
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry I didn't write in sooner, I heard about the news from Dave and Josh while over here at the contest, and didn't really know what to say. The dedication and offering that josh and the event organizers did was truly an amazing thing and I was glad to hear that you guys got to see it. I am deeply saddened for your loss, and will miss the enthusiasm and spirit that made him so unique.
-Whit Poor
I never knew this man but I deeply sympathize with the whole family. My life is racing and I am sure it was also his. I am new here to the District 36 family and you have my sympathy. You get my deepest prayers RIP
ReplyDeleteIt is amazing to see the outpouring of love for Troy and your family, although not surprising. Rob and I feel very fortunate to have experienced Troy's vibrant energy and enthusiam for the people and things he cared about.
ReplyDeletePlease know that you have our support in whatever you may need. We are just a phone call away.
Jessica and Rob Chavez
cindy and boys we are all in shock to hear what happened to troy we all loved him very much!! auntie dianne and laurie send there love and wish we were there with you.i love you so much cindy you and the boys are in our prayers.love your cousin karen and family xoxo
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss, Cindy. We all have so many memories of Troy from the old third avenue days. My thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteKate Leggett
RIP troy and we are praying for your family
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